Things We Miss

Lawn mowers growling on Saturday mornings

Freshly cut grass and mid morning sweat

Mixing sweetly in the air

Too early

Sitting in traffic

Back and forth between gas and brake

Gas and brake

Staring off into the clouds

Looks like rain

Waiting for a pizza

Ordered forty five minutes ago

I couldn’t find your house

AC is broke

Turn on all the fans

Heat is broke

Light the fireplace

Ran out of cheese

Run to the store

Out of Nesquick

Run to the store

Soy sauce, filets, microwave dinners

Run to the store

There was a line at Starbucks

They messed up my order

Caramel instead of mocha

Guy cut me off

Guy took my spot

Missed the light

Missed the exit

Late for work

The intense heat of summer trapped inside a car for five hours

Skin sticks to the leather

Hard to breathe

Beads of sweat

Hands burn on the wheel

Muddy paws of a playful dog

Traipsing through the living room

I just vacuumed

Send him outside

Everything and nothing

Things we think of

Things we don’t.

Journey to the Great Unknown

“Alright baby, I’m heading out.”

She looked up and sighed.  “Do you really have to go?  You know what happened to Linda’s husband; it’s just so dangerous.”  Her eyes pleaded with him.  They had gone over this a hundred times before and each time the thought of it brought her to the point of tears.

“Baby.”  He looked into her eyes, touching her face gently.  He didn’t have to say more.  They both knew he would go.  He had to.  He turned to exit and began his slow departure.  Just inside the doorway he looked back over his shoulder.  “I love you and I’ll be back.”

He stepped out into the darkness.  The air was humid but the ground was cool.  He shifted uneasily in place, taking in one last view of the only home he had known, just in case.  The moment passed and he moved on: down the alleys he knew by heart; across the cold, steel bridge; out into the open space where he had played as a youngster, beyond which lay the great unknown. It was to this place he was heading now.

It was well known among the community that this place held an abundance of food; enough to feed the entire community even.  In addition to the food, though, there were tales of a hideous monster that delighted in killing and torturing all those who would dare trespass into his land.  In the old days, it was assumed to be just a story; a fairy tale told by parents to keep their children from wandering too far from the village.  But as time moved on and food became more and more scarce, an adventurous few, those with nothing to lose, began to seek out the treasure that was hidden beyond the open space.  The few that returned told tales of a land teeming with food, more than one could eat in a lifetime.  They brought back evidence of their findings, enough to feed their families and friends.  The great majority, however, never returned.  Tales of the monster were proven true.  It was a giant, towering hundreds of stories above the treasure seekers.  It wore rudimentary cloth coverings around its midsection and was otherwise naked and hairy.  It roared loudly in some barbarian tongue and stomped around awkwardly, shaking the whole earth.  Those who were caught by it were killed immediately.  Those lucky enough to escape never went back.

So it was with a heavy heart that he silently entered the dark hallway, the beginning of the path to the great unknown.  It was drab and damp.  He crept along slowly, dodging the cobwebs and low hanging bits of ceiling.  As he continued along he began to think of his wife and children.  He wished he could have stayed with them, wished he didn’t have to make this journey.  But times were hard.  There simply was not enough food at home.  The children were starving.  Some had died already.  He had to do something.

As he continued on, the air changed.  It was cooler now, and there was a slight wind.  Immediately he began to shake, but he knew it wasn’t the wind that was giving him chills; he was getting close.  But with the wind came another sensation.  One that was as welcome to him as the tender touch of his wife: the aroma of food.  This aroma rejuvenated his spirit and he took each step with more and more confidence.  He had come here to save his family.  He would not let them down.

Suddenly the hallway opened up into a vast nothingness; he had arrived.  The smell of food was all around him.  The air was cool.  The rocky, jagged floor he had been walking along transformed into a smooth, cool, flat surface.  He tried peering through the darkness but could distinguish nothing. 

Slowly he crept forward, constantly on the lookout for any sign of the monster.  He found shortly that the open space was not infinite, that it was bounded on all sides by huge walls, one of which had a large crack in its side.  As he moved slowly towards the crack the aroma grew stronger.  This was it.  He arrived at the crack and carefully poked his head through.  What he saw was amazing: beyond the crack lay the largest cavern he had ever seen or heard about, hundreds of times larger than the one he was in currently and extending off in every direction.  Strange, colorful towers stood erect in the distance, looming overhead like gigantic, mutant trees.  The ground seemed multicolored and smooth, with strange patterns repeating off into the distance.  Giant, odd shaped mountains rose up from the ground, casting weird shadows on the land below.  Most importantly though, there was food.  Everywhere he looked he saw strange bits of food: on the floor, on the mountains, in the towers, everywhere.  The stories were absolutely true; this really was a land of infinite abundance.

He began to pick at the food he found, eating and collecting at the same time.  There was enough here to feed his family for many months.  He became excited, dashing about, tasting a bit of this, then a bit of this, always grabbing more for the return trip home.  As he moved about, he stole a look up into the mountains and stopped immediately.  There, sitting up on one of the cliffs, a huge collection of food of every color, flavor, and variety imaginable was waiting to be collected and taken home.  He thought of the smile his wife would have when he presented all these delicious things to her and the children.  What an amazing feast they would have when he returned.

The trek up the mountain was an easy one, for he was a skilled climber.  In just a short time, he reached the halfway point and the mountain flattened out for a ways.  As he surveyed his surroundings he could see that the crack he had come through was actually a crack in the wall of the mountain he was currently standing on.  The first, smaller cavern had been inside the mountain.  He tried to imagine where his village was from this place, but it proved difficult.  It was no matter anyway, he would soon be home.

He ran swiftly across the flat part of the mountain, ready to begin the last leg of the climb when suddenly a searing light spread throughout the land, blinding and immobilizing him for an instant.  He regained his wits just in time to see the gargantuan outline of some huge figure lumbering towards him.  As it neared, he could make out some of the disgusting features of the terrible monster: its body was disfigured and bent in unnatural ways; its bare skin was soft and mushy and brown and parts of it were covered in hair; it had huge eyes and sharp teeth that could be seen clearly when the revolting creature opened its mouth to bellow; the stench was simply repulsive; and the whole situation was deathly frightening.  Completely paralyzed, he sat staring at the ugly monster until a giant something came crashing down on him from the sky, killing him instantly.

“Fucking cockroaches.”

A Glass Half Empty

      She said I had nice veins.  I thought this a strange compliment until she began to describe for me the ways in which she would like to kill herself.  None were more gruesome than the others.  They were all simple and straightforward; not celebrations of death, merely quick and effective means of ending a life filled with suffering and boredom.  She spoke of her impending suicide as a matter of fact, as something to be done, the way one would normally talk of grocery shopping or laundry.  There was neither fear nor excitement nor sadness in her voice or eyes, only a steady calmness that indicated that she had put much thought into her future.
      We sat facing each other on oversized couches with splintered wooden backings.  A dusty, beige fan spun slowly overhead, gently pushing warm air around the small, windowless foyer.  Bright sunlight came streaming in through the open doorway, bounced off a small section of floor and flooded the room with a warm glow.  Two glasses of tea, one half empty, sat steaming on an antique, lacquered coffee table in front of us.  Alongside the tea laid two sweet rolls, each with a drop of chocolate hidden inside, both as of yet untouched.  The sounds of children playing rolled in through the doorway in waves.  The only other noise was the subtle whirring of the slow moving fan.
      What does one say in a situation like this?  How can one even begin to address the myriad complexities inherent to human life?  Can we talk off of ledges those who truly intend to jump?  Convince them through sound analysis and persuasive argument?  Or can we merely act as sounding boards, echoing back their sentiments and allowing them the space to sound out their thoughts and feelings; their reasons and regrets; their inhibitions, desires, passions, and hatreds?  These things they have thought about time and time again, do they sound different when reflected back by another soul?  Do meanings change?  Do murky waters become clear?  Is there something inherent in listening, in empathy, that can provide context to a given situation?  Are vibrations in the air distorted by contact with human life such that when they return to the speaker they have taken on a new tone and the ear hears them in a new light?  Perhaps simply the company of another, the knowledge that we are not alone can, in and of itself, change our perception.  The words, the reasons, the meanings, the vibrations, the context: perhaps it is not these that are important, but merely the presence of another.  Could sitting in silence change the course of history?
      Our time together had ended just as the foyer opened up to a deluge of sweaty, smiling children.  Laughter and yelling rang out through the hollow building, assaulting the eardrums in a way that was at the same time enjoyable and disagreeable.  The girl rose to leave and prepare for the next activity.  I looked up at her with as soft a smile as I could manage and I could see my efforts reflected back faintly in her young face.  As she walked away, I let out an inaudible sigh and rested my head in my hands, elbows on knees, eyes closed.  I sat like this for a long moment, thinking nothing.  When I opened my eyes again, I could see only the remnants of our shared snack sitting still and lifeless on the ancient coffee table: shredded bits of napkin scattered about like fallen snow from winter’s first freeze; a few torn chunks of sweet roll, picked apart and surrounded by tiny bits of crust; and standing tall and straight amidst all the crumbs and pieces of tissue, two glasses of tea, one half full.

Clothes We Wear

She stood staring into the mirror for long time, examining the lines around her eyes, the puffs above her cheeks, and the open pores of her forehead and nose.  She frowned as she surveyed the tiny, blond hairs growing above, between, and below the space where she had decided her eyebrows should be.  Even worse were the hairs on her upper lip, the ones she plucked and dyed religiously.  She opened her mouth wide to reveal a set of dull white teeth.  Her hair sat flat on her head and fell down lifelessly past her shoulders; it hung as straight and as boring as she had always thought it to be.  She let out an exasperated sigh and set to work.

            Her morning routine was almost sacred; she never left the house without first prostrating herself before the mirror God.  Her worship consisted of a long procession of washing and scrubbing, flipping and fluffing, blotting, dabbing, wiping, and brushing.  Liquids, bars, powders, and gels were each applied in turn.   “No one wants to see me like this,” she thought as she dipped a small sponge into a plastic container of age defying chemicals.  Though she was well practiced in her daily tradition and went through each motion with swiftness, it still took a half hour before she had finished completely.  “There,” she thought at last, “that’s better.” 

            She left the bathroom and made her way to the closet.  It was overflowing with clothes from the past: jeans and pants that were no longer in style, last year’s blouses and tops, jackets that were not currently fashionable, shoes she had once loved but now considered passé, and an assortment of belts, purses, and other accessories that had each had their turn in the sun but had not seen the light of day for some time.  At the forefront of all of this hung the clothes from which she was now selecting.  She grabbed a pair of dark blue jeans and struggled mightily to pull them up over her womanly curves.  She did a few, quick squats to stretch the material out so her skin could breathe, but it had little effect: every inch of the fabric clung to her legs like frightened children in a haunted house.  She selected an overpriced shirt with simple design and pulled a tight fitting, black jacket over it.  When she had finished adding a belt and jewelry she picked out a pair of towering, black leather stilettos from the closet floor and set about strapping them to her pedicured feet.  Her jacket and jeans constricted her movements considerably and by the time she had finished with the shoes there were a few tiny dew drops of sweat on her brow.  She dabbed these away with a nearby towel and pushed herself off the bed and into an uneasy stance.  She steadied herself quickly and stood staring at her reflection in the full length mirror attached to the inside of her closet door.  The sore spots around her eyebrows and lips were well hidden by heavy makeup, but she could still feel the slight burn of plucked hair.  The jeans were still synched to her legs and the jacket restricted her arm movements.  Her feet showed marks from the blisters that had formed after the last time she had worn these stilettos and already she could feel the material slowly rubbing away at the sensitive skin.  But none of this mattered in the face of one important fact: she looked good. 

            She left her apartment with her head held high and her hips on swag.  She had reason to be confident: she had the look.  The tight jeans, the tall shoes, the dark colors, the perfectly coiffed hair, the painted on face, all of this was in perfect alignment with the most popular style at the time.  She looked exactly as she should.  As she made her way down the street she crossed paths with a woman wearing a colorful, flowing dress that came down to her knees.  It had a bright, floral pattern and seemed happy to be worn.  “What is she wearing?” our heroine thought to herself.  “When was the last time floral dresses were even in style?  And all that color.  Doesn’t she know that darks are in?”  She scoffed at the poor woman and proceeded onwards.

            Sometime later, as she was nearing her final destination, she came across two Muslim women, both of whom were wearing veils hiding their hair and ears and long sleeve shirts and pants covering both wrist and ankle.  She thought they looked uncomfortable.  She had asked women like this before why they allowed themselves to be told what to wear; why they didn’t choose to dress more freely.  They had replied that it was indeed their choice and that they preferred to dress the way they did.  She was incredulous.  “What sheep,” she thought to herself.  “What mindless adherence to such an obviously chauvinistic standard of proper dress.  Isn’t it clear to them that this style, if one can call it a style, is the result of the interpretations and opinions of a patriarchal society?  Can’t they see that they are being forced to adopt someone else’s standards of decency?  Don’t they realize that it is not their choice, not their free choice, to wear such cumbersome and uncomfortable clothes?  That it was ordained by society, by culture?  Predetermined by a paternalistic majority, dead-set on forcing upon women their own ideals of propriety?  They think they are free.  They believe they have chosen to wear these clothes, that they had a say in the matter.  Ha!  If only they would open their eyes to the world around them.  Their society has dictated what clothes they wear.  Their culture, their religion, their community and family: these are the elements that have chosen for these young girls what clothes they should wear, what style they should embrace.  These girls are mere sheep, being led by the traditions of men who have died many centuries ago.  Sheep, being forced into bulky and burdensome clothing, all the while thinking that it was their decision to make.  Ha,” she laughed again, “Stupid girls.  They are not free like I am.  I wear whatever I want: short or long, colorful or dark, simple or elegant.  I don’t have to conform to someone else’s ideas and opinions.  I have freedom.  Real freedom.  These girls have only an illusion.”

She continued on confidently until a flash of color caught her eye.  Many stories above, painted on a giant billboard, a woman was smiling down on her.  She was dressed in a flowing, brightly colored floral print dress that was being blown by an unseen breeze.  In the bottom right-hand corner of the billboard, the words “the next BIG thing” were printed in simple, white lettering.  Just below that, the name of famous designer in New York.  She gazed up at the oversized poster for a moment before moving on.  “What a beautiful dress,” she thought gaily to herself, “and those shoes!  Oh, just darling.”  She stole a quick glance down at the clothes she was wearing now.  They seemed so drab and lifeless, so clingy.  Where was the color?  Where was the flow?  A feeling of insecurity began to well up inside of her until it felt as though every person she saw was silently passing judgment against her.  “I’ll have to go shopping this weekend,” she decided, “I can’t be happy in such dreary, ill-fitting clothes.”

Moroccan Rain

The midday sun is hidden behind a thick layer of black and green clouds.  Only its golden rays are visible; they light up the edges of the clouds with a literal silver lining, contrasting greatly with the dull grayness of the clouds interior and exclaiming to the world that the sun is indeed still with us and that this too shall pass.  For now though, the darkness has spread over three quarters of the sky, extending way off into the distance and leaving only a small patch of blue in the east.  The distant earth is dark and drab, as though night has fallen early.  The western horizon is lost between the blackness of giant, bulging clouds and a land unseen by the sun; it cannot be determined where the one ends and the other begins.  Steady gusts of wind indicate to all that this darkness is coming soon.

The silence is pervasive.  Ancient trees shake from fear of the coming assault but dare not make a sound, lest the storm find each of them individually and put in double efforts to uproot them from their earthen homes.  The air is thick with moisture and smells of Mother Nature’s own sweat, the natural musk of an old, yet vibrant woman who has been hard at work and still has much to do.  The streets are clear.  Sidewalks and intersections are almost deserted, save for a few scattered souls finishing some last bit of business before making their way inside.  Shops have been closed, windows shut, doors fastened, and ropes tied.  An uneasy calm has descended upon the city.

The clouds overhead are heavy with rain and decide intermittently to lighten their load, casting down tiny droplets of dirty water upon the residents of this dusty town in northern Morocco.  Some drops fall without care, allowing themselves to be pushed by the wind this way and that until eventually they reach their final destinations with a silent thud.  Others are more playful; they race their friends and lightheartedly argue over who is faster or who has the better aim.  They speed down towards the earth and call out to the others, “Look at me!  Look at me!” before landing on the heads of the passing humans with triumphant splashes, their kamikaze missions complete.  The largest drops fall rapidly, cutting through the wind as though it were non-existent.  When they finally do touch down, their mass and speed lead to spectacular crashes.  They bounce high off of the ground, jumping for joy in celebration of their arrivals, only to fall yet again, landing softly and forming groups of small, nearly indistinguishable puddles.  These first, slight showers are erratic.  They start and stop with an eerie irregularity.  They are just the first wave of the coming onslaught; soldiers of the front line.  The heavy rumblings in the distance indicate that the cavalry and tanks are on their way.